3 Guiding Lessons for 2023
Around this time each year, I find myself reflecting on the events of the last twelve months. In some ways, it seems like it was only yesterday when we were ringing in the new year. Where did the time go? How is it December again? In other ways, January 2022 feels like a distant memory.
Regardless, every December I鈥檓 reminded of a quote by Soren Kierkegaard, 鈥淟ife can only be understood by looking backward; but it must be lived looking forward.鈥
2022 has been a transformational year. Looking back over the events of this year, I鈥檝e come to a few realizations:
- 聽Less is more. When I think about all of things I set out to do in a day鈥攍et alone in a year鈥攊t鈥檚 easy to become overwhelmed. Instead of trying to do a lot, I鈥檝e learned that it鈥檚 more important to start by thinking about your desired impact. Your intention will clarify which tasks are worthy of your time. Once you know the impact you want to have, you should do only those things that will accomplish it.
- Thinking is productive. Most of us are taught that being productive means doing something鈥攂eing busy, creating, producing and the like. I鈥檝e learned that setting aside time to think is as important, if not more, than doing. The problem is thinking doesn鈥檛 look like doing. Therefore, it鈥檚 undervalued. The reality is that if you never have dedicated time to think, you are less productive, creative, or innovative鈥攁ll the things that are necessary for sustainable success. So, don鈥檛 shortchange the thinking.
- Clarity brings peace of mind. Some degree of ambiguity is often unavoidable. Most things in life do not come with an instructional manual. That means it requires a lot of mental energy to make sense of things or see them clearly. When things aren鈥檛 clear we experience confusion, anxiety, and even fear. We all want to eliminate or avoid as much confusion as possible.
When beginning a new project鈥攐r even course correcting at a midpoint鈥攊t is essential to devote a little extra time and energy to clearly define goals and markers of success. That can be especially challenging when we鈥檙e already pressed for time. But it鈥檚 a wise investment; ultimately, that clarity reduces stress and increases our peace of mind. It allows us to plan our next step. With increased clarity, we can let go of doubts about what we don鈥檛 know and focus on what we do.
It鈥檚 taken me a lot of headache and heartache to come to these realizations, but they will certainly help me in the year(s) to come. As we close out this year, I hope you will take a few moments to celebrate all you have accomplished this year and also to reflect on what you have learned.